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The problem is that we cannot find something unless we know where to look. For decades the focus has been on a search dedicated to somewhere outside of us. Chances are the search is futile because the answers are within.
How we define and measure ourselves has been predominately about what we have rather than who we truly are. In our relentless pursuit to ‘have’, we have lost the real intimate connection with to what we as individuals want think and feel. We have in many ways been hypnotised by mass marketing into who we think we should be, AKA ‘what we have’ in order to be happy.
Is it any wonder that so many relationships are at best strained and at the worst destructive, when many choices are based on personal values dictated to by mass media? In choosing friends and partners we are swayed by looks, wealth or charisma, looking to acquire love externally. With our connection to the love within being lost how can we possibly expect to connect to another in the spirit of love?
Of the many things we can own, love remains very much in demand and elusive all at once. We have tried the ‘having’ principle and have discovered that on the whole, this is not working, so maybe it is time we tried ‘being’; being true to ourselves by first finding out who we are.
How do we this? There is no definitive answer because there is no ONE-WAY. I believe it is a process; a journey that begins with accepting that a change is needed. Then make a decision to replace the insatiable material quest for a spiritual (by this I mean, the search to connect to ones own spirit) one.
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